Author Archives: Charla Hathaway

Anal Interview Gets to the Bottom of Things

I just saw a play on Broadway about the first electric vibrators doctors used to relieve women of ‘hysteria’ (built up pressure in the womb) in the late 1800‘s. Now the Victorian doctors could do in minutes what used to … Continue reading

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After the Cuddle Party

I brought my boyfriend to his first Cuddle Party. I was in training to be a Cuddle Party leader and the first evening of the training was an actual party for trainers and friends. Though I had attended a couple … Continue reading

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Uncle Bob is Dressing like a Lady

I just returned from visiting my Uncle Bob who at age 85 has started dressing as a “Lady.” My Aunt Eleanor died about a year and a half ago and he says, “I’ve always lived as others expected of me. … Continue reading

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Sexy Aging: When in doubt, Eat a Gaggle of Greens

Being trim and healthy is a big part of feeling sexy. Keeping extra weight off keeps us sexually on! About age forty I noticed I was gaining weight, and at age fifty I was shocked to see the scales. I … Continue reading

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Are we talking about Improv Acting or Good Sex?

by Charla Hathaway I showed up for my first improv acting class feeling like a fish out of water. What was I doing with all these brave, hip youngsters who ‘stream consciousness’ from iPhones and now, the theater stage? I … Continue reading

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Female Erotic Massage class: the Carnal and Sacred

When I teach my erotic massage classes, a room full of fidgety ‘strangers’ magically transforms into a gathering of relaxed, curious and appreciative friends. Amazingly, in just a few hours we take a sacred journey, beyond silence and shame, that … Continue reading

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