Author Archives: David Cates

Sex Creates Realities

from www.comradex.com Make no mistake about it: sex is power. Kingdoms rise and fall for sex. Societies legislate marriage to control sex. Churches advocate celibacy, on pain of hell. They want to keep the genie in the bottle. The raw … Continue reading

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The Power (and Misuse) of Men Apologizing to Women

Today I stumbled on a Facebook page of men’s apologies, generalized to All Women Everywhere. (links at end of this post) I’ve used this exercise in workshops with astonishingly powerful results. Men and women breaking down and sobbing, lives changing, … Continue reading

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The Women Know What I’m Talking ‘Bout (So Men, Listen Up!)

When the Sexual Healing Project was announced on Deep Masculine, who stood up and cheered? Overwhelmingly, women. They’re the ones who recognize the battle scars in their own bodies. They’re the ones who get spooked When Sexual Wounds from the … Continue reading

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The Secret of Continuous Orgasm

There is a pulse inside our bodies, deeper than heartbeat, below the level of synaptic firing. This pulse aligns us with the rhythm of life. This pulse attunes us to the music of creation. When we surrender to this trembling … Continue reading

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What To Do If Your Cock’s too Small

Forget the staged shrieks of porn actresses being mercilessly battered by beer-bottle cocks. In porn, what the women are screaming for is money, not the dude who’s ramming them for your viewing pleasure. She’s far more interested in the size … Continue reading

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When Sexual Wounds from the Past Return to Haunt the Present

When sex dries up, it’s easy to distance. Or fight. Or just avoid the elephant in the bedroom. That’s no longer necessary. If you’ve been sexually active in America, you’ve got battle scars. If you’re like most people, you work … Continue reading

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